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Loneliness


  Shifting our focus on to Jesus

At one time or another, we all go through periods of loneliness. It’s hard, and it can be depressing I know, I’ve been there, and as special holidays come around it’s twice as hard. In the past, I’ve had my times of spending some holidays alone, so, I understand. I know it won’t be easy, but you’ll make it; I did! Here is the best kind of help anyone can offer you. I hope you will benefit from it.

Keep your focus on Jesus! As long as you keep Him at the center of your life you won’t have time to become preoccupied with yourself. This is the truth; no matter how lonely you may feel you are never really “alone,” because your very best friend and companion, Jesus, is right there with you all the day and night. Think about it, instead of allowing these holidays to waste away by feeling sad or depressed, use this time to study your Bible and listen for God’s instruction. I believe He is setting this time aside for you and Him to get closer. This can be a wonderful opportunity to get to know Him better.

This is also a good time to pray for a deepening of your spiritual life, and for establishing a more meaningful relationships with both Christian and non-Christian friends. As you develop a stronger, devotional relationship with God you will change for the better in the way you love and care for others. This time of re-acquaintance will give you a new outlook on life, and lift you higher and higher in your appreciation for who you really are in Christ! You are special. I am convinced this is so!

You may have heard it said; “The more a lonely person gives, the more he or she will receive from others.” And, in (Proverbs 18:24) the Bible declares; “A man who has friends, must himself be friendly.” Ask your local church or fellowship group how you might be of help this year. This will give you the opportunity to meet some interesting new people and allow you to give of yourself to others who need your love and care. This can also be a good time to strengthen any family ties that may have become broken over the years. Speak to your pastor about how you can help others in your church or community; he or she can probably use your help in during this busy season for them.

Most importantly, yearn for more of God in the midst of your distresses. Here are two beautiful Scriptures I will leave you with that support this yearning I am speaking of:

“As the deer pants for the water brooks, so pants my soul for You, O God” (Psalm 42:1).

“Deep calls unto deep at the noise of Your waterfalls; / All Your waves and billows have gone over me” (Psalm 42:7).

My wish for peace and love are for you.

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