Shifting our focus on
to Jesus
At one time or another, we all go through periods of
loneliness. It’s hard, and it can be depressing I know, I’ve been there, and as
special holidays come around it’s twice as hard. In the past, I’ve
had my times of spending some holidays alone, so, I understand. I know it won’t
be easy, but you’ll make it; I did! Here is the best kind of help anyone can
offer you. I hope you will benefit from it.
Keep your focus on Jesus!
As long as you keep Him at the center of your life you won’t have time to
become preoccupied with yourself. This is the truth; no matter how lonely you
may feel you are never really “alone,” because your very best friend and
companion, Jesus, is right there with
you all the day and night. Think about it, instead of allowing these holidays
to waste away by feeling sad or depressed, use this time to study your Bible
and listen for God’s instruction. I believe He is setting this time aside for
you and Him to get closer. This can be a wonderful opportunity to get to know
Him better.
This is also a good time to pray for a deepening of your
spiritual life, and for establishing a more meaningful relationships with both
Christian and non-Christian friends. As you develop a stronger, devotional
relationship with God you will change for the better in the way you love and
care for others. This time of re-acquaintance will give you a new outlook on
life, and lift you higher and higher in your appreciation for who you really are in Christ! You are special. I am convinced this is so!
You may have heard it said; “The more a lonely person gives, the more he or she will receive from
others.” And, in (Proverbs 18:24) the Bible declares; “A man who has friends, must himself be friendly.” Ask your local church
or fellowship group how you might be of help this year. This will give you the
opportunity to meet some interesting new people and allow you to give of
yourself to others who need your love and care. This can also be a good time to
strengthen any family ties that may have become broken over the years. Speak to
your pastor about how you can help others in your church or community; he or
she can probably use your help in during this busy season for them.
Most importantly, yearn
for more of God in the midst of your distresses. Here are two beautiful
Scriptures I will leave you with that support this yearning I am speaking of:
“As the deer pants for
the water brooks, so pants my soul for You, O God” (Psalm 42:1).
“Deep calls unto deep at
the noise of Your waterfalls; / All Your waves and billows have gone over me”
(Psalm 42:7).
My wish for peace and love are for you.